A former youth hockey coach was sentenced last week to six years in prison for sexual assault of a 14 year old girl. The article in the River Falls Journal is ghastly, but it is worthwhile for parents and coaches to go through the lengthy read for a couple of reasons:
- The methods of the predator are illustrated. The key to detection of abuse is to be aware of how sexual predators operate.
- The predator's total lack of understanding that he did something wrong is also shown. All sexual predators have this in common.
I am trained in youth protection. I recommend all coaches go through Virtus training or something similar to it. I also encourage parents to consider going through the training as well. Here are a few quick tips for coaches to get you started:
- Never allow a player to be alone in the locker room.
- Have an assistant coach or parent with you when meeting with a player in the locker room.
- Conduct one-on-one meetings in a public place where multiple people are present, such as the lobby of the rink.
- Know the signs of abuse and how to report them to the appropriate authorities.
- Respect each player's right to privacy.
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